How to ask for money instead of gifts for the wedding? - wedding contribution lettersample
Me and my boyfriend first goal is to save enough money for our own space. We want our customers to donate money for a mortgage bank may, in our name, but knows not how. We are both in Chinese and has been preserved with the guidelines of our culture into line "red envelopes" with money to do big events like Chinese New Year or weddings, but do not want to offend any customers who can not understand our request. Therefore, I have 2 questions:
1. What this word in our wedding invitations (so I guess something like "We would be your contribution go to our wedding, the house of our dreams want."?)
2. Is there another way to achieve this, or is it not a good idea? Quite frankly, I do not need anything from Crate & Barrel, or any other folder, and do not think it is wise to register and then return later, to ensure all the money.
Please help. I'm really at a loss how to solve this problem.
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Wedding Contribution Lettersample How To Ask For Money Instead Of Gifts For The Wedding?
10 comments:
I think it is a simple solution to your problem. If you ask for something (like money), instead of receiving what you gently given him more money so ungrateful and Hungary. I understand perfectly, and I often give gifts of money, so that the recipient can get what they want. There are also disadvantages. Some call indifferent and lazy, not to come up with an idea to a "real". What I mean is that what you do is likely to be criticized for doing so.
Personally, I am not asking "for money instead of wedding presents another directly. What do I do it because he has a guest list, let your friends and relatives of these people know indirectly alludes above are those who want to receive cash instead of things in the little utility, such as toaster, plates, etc. I hope that such advice is a help, and get my best wishes for your wedding.
It's very bad taste to try (and offensive) to lead the goodwill and generosity of others.
You can not ... undoubtedly the best thing to do, that your parents, when people ask what is an appropriate gift that answer to ask, "Well, they really do have everything at home, now they are saving to buy a house for them"
Ask people to pay for its cost is simply rude, vulgar and greedy, there is no elegant way to do this!
You can not ... undoubtedly the best thing to do, that your parents, when people ask what is an appropriate gift that answer to ask, "Well, they really do have everything at home, now they are saving to buy a house for them"
Ask people to pay for its cost is simply rude, vulgar and greedy, there is no elegant way to do this!
Have a Jack and Jill Party of the money in advance. Guests can make money, perhaps a right of entry.
If you tell them that this is probably what will be willing to contribute.
So people may still be able regular donations to the wedding.
List your company are made on your mortgage application, in Leau gift of the word respectfully request deposits in (name of mortgage company). Thank you for helping us reach our goal of a new home. Your generosity is greatly appreciated.
Simply fill in their wedding invitations, gifts, cash
are greatly appreciated.
I agree with others, is * very * bad taste to ask for money in writing. (It is not only in the written request or part of the invitation.)
Like others, I think it is perfectly acceptable to try to spread the word. "
The problem with many marriages, they have become more about the gift of the presence of good friends and family. A wedding is not a pseudo-Investment Opportunity! :)
This means that my child has recently launched an invitation to the birthday of a child with the words: "Please no gifts. Jane has just opened a bank account and want to deposit money.
We did not come.
I agree with others, is * very * bad taste to ask for money in writing. (It is not only in the written request or part of the invitation.)
Like others, I think it is perfectly acceptable to try to spread the word. "
The problem with many marriages, they have become more about the gift of the presence of good friends and family. A wedding is not a pseudo-Investment Opportunity! :)
This means that my child has recently launched an invitation to the birthday of a child with the words: "Please no gifts. Jane has just opened a bank account and want to deposit money.
We did not come.
I agree with others, is * very * bad taste to ask for money in writing. (It is not only in the written request or part of the invitation.)
Like others, I think it is perfectly acceptable to try to spread the word. "
The problem with many marriages, they have become more about the gift of the presence of good friends and family. A wedding is not a pseudo-Investment Opportunity! :)
This means that my child has recently launched an invitation to the birthday of a child with the words: "Please no gifts. Jane has just opened a bank account and want to deposit money.
We did not come.
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